Conservative clerics in Egypt are in a conundrum. A new device sold by a Chinese company threatens to make every Egyptian woman who uses it, a virgin. The “ Artificial Virginity Hymen Kit” distributed by Gigimo costs about $30.00 is intended to help newly married women fool their husbands into believing that they are virgins by producing a small amount of blood like substance during intercourse.
The controversy began when a reporter from a Dutch radio station broadcast an Arabic translation of the Chinese advertisement for the product. Conservative members of the Muslim Brotherhood in Egypt’s Parliament have since asked for a ban on the device. Prominent Egyptian scholar Abdel Moati Bayoumi said anyone who imports the device should be punished saying “This product encourages illicit sexual relations, Islamic culture forbids these relations except within the confines of marriage,” Bayoumi said.
The controversy over virginity and the newly provided ability to fake it, hits at the center of questions regarding the status of women in much of the Muslim world. Questions regarding female purity hold a crucial position in evaluating the worth of a woman and negotiating marriage contracts. In Egypt itself, thousands of women undergo hymen reconstruction surgery every year in order to fulfill preconditions of virginity for marriage and to avoid bringing shame to families.
The practice of hymen reconstruction surgery has migrated with Arab populations to European countries like France where young Muslim women may undergo the half hour surgery for a cost of about €2000 ($3,000). Others choose to go back to countries like Tunisia where they can get the surgery at lower cost. The surgery is legal in the European Union as well as in the United States where it falls in the category of elective surgery. While surgery itself is less common in Pakistan, women are routinely abused tortured and even killed if they are found not to be virgins upon being wed. In several cases, young brides have been known to commit suicide rather than risk bringing shame to their families.
The issue of whether virginity constitutes the total worth of a woman upon marriage (rendering her otherwise unmarriageable) was dealt with recently in a courtroom in the French city of Lille where the judge initially ruled that a marriage between a Muslim man and a woman could be annulled because the bride had lied about her virginity. A French appeals court then took up the issue of whether virginity was “an essential quality of a woman” and ended up reversing the previous decision that had decreed lying about virginity to be a grounds for fraud that would justify annulment. Of course, the outcome of the case would have been markedly different under Islamic law where deception regarding the virginity of the bride would result both in an annulment of the marriage and a repudiation of the dower.
Expectedly, as the news clips from Egypt amply illustrate, much of the clerical debate over the device has focused on the fact that it allows women to fake and flout the theological precept prescribing a prohibition on extra marital sexual relations. No argument is provided of the fact that the male involved may also have come to the marriage without proof of virginity which is equally theologically culpable but less easily verified. The assumption is that women’s virginity must necessarily be verifiable hence necessitating the ban on the Chinese virginity gadget while male virginity can conveniently be glossed over. Equally sexist are attempts to justify the concern over women’s virginity as one motivated by insuring the sexual purity of society in general since it ignores the reality that every extra marital sexual act involves by definition two parties, one male and one female which are both equally responsible for their actions.
The fact is, in Egypt, Pakistan and in a majority of Muslim countries the onus of protecting a society’s delusions of purity and piety are placed solely and singularly on the shoulders of women. In insuring that virgins are venerated and non-virgins vilified social constructions of good and bad women are enforced in a society where the value of a woman is little else than her ability to breed sons, please her husband and be a good housekeeper. The myth that is continually forwarded is that all those women who are not virgins are somehow dirty, impure and unworthy of marriage. No consideration is given to the fact that the majority of these women may be widows, divorcees or victims of sexual assault. In other words, male complicity in reducing women to non-virgin status is completely ignored in the whole discussion.
Because of this, thousands of widows, divorcees and rape victims in countries like Pakistan and Saudi Arabia are forced to live lives at the very margins of social acceptability. Not only can they not expect to be married again but they are further dealt the burden of being somehow morally compromised simply because they are no longer the pure virgins venerated as brides. Examples from Islamic history that suggest otherwise. For instance, the notable fact that the first marriage of the Prophet (pbuh) was to a non-virgin are given short shrift and virtually ignored.
It is interesting indeed, that the device in question that provides Muslim women with some semblance of empowerment against the strictures of proving their purity is being sold from China. Indeed, it brings to focus the vast disparity between nations like China, who have put their women to work and hence harnessed 51% of an unused labor force to become a manufacturing super power and countries like Pakistan and Egypt who are still squabbling over inanities that necessitate a device like the Artificial Hymen Kit. While Chinese women work to produce anything that sells and raise their country to new heights as an emerging power; Muslim women remain embroiled in proving that their worth is more than just their virginity. Rafia Zakaria is Associate Editor of altmuslim.com.
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Massinissa, you are as bad as the worst pornographer yourself with the language and videos you post here. You are as unwholesome as they are in your obsessiveness with these issues.
- Posted by Akenanubis on October 20, 2009 at 04:14 PM
If "discussion" was possible, there would simply be no market for such a device. But there isn't, and so there is. And I really don't want to hear people yaking about STDs...do you know how many Arab Muslim women I know who get STDs even though they were virgins when they got married? Virginity is not a guarantee that one will be infection free forever, my friends. Let's not drag morality into this issue...the virgin-issue is not about cleanliness, or family values, or morality. It's about power and control, and it's not new, or is it going away.
Massinissa, you're not a doctor, I suggest you consult one before quoting dangerous statistics. HPV is trasmitted sexually, but that does not make it a sexually transmitted disease. HPV is a common virus found on every surface--any woman, including all who are virgins, can get HPV as soon as they have intercourse. That's why it's so common. It's not that all American women are the whores you're making them out to be.
By the way, the other thing that empowers women is education about their bodies, which you might want to look into, since any gyno would've been able to tell you that same thing.
GEEZ< Massinissa, where the hell are you from? "Do most women really have the ability to freely choose in a society which places around the clock pressure on them to starve themselves, take off their clothes, and sexually please their male counterparts?"
YES, yes they do. They do it be educating themselves.
"Do women really have the ability to freely choose in a society which instills in them the belief that promiscuity is synonymous with liberation?" That was like 1960 something. Yes, today, people remain sexually active but it's not because they find it 'liberating'. "Don’t get me wrong, there are a few people who are immune to social conditioning and actually make choices on the basis of reason rather then the sentiments instilled in them by society. But then again these people are the exception rather then the rule."
No, they are not the exception. The anorexics, sluts, and nymphos you're pointing out are the exception. And while we're on the subject of deviants, did it ever occur to you that as an Easterner, you're just as guilty of stereotyping when you assumed everyone in America sleeps with everyone else, instead of assuming that women exercise that choice to their benefit instead?
Thank you for calling out Massinissa, I was reading through the comments and could not believe the nonsense he/she was posting. Though I can't complain too much. Some of his/her comments actually gave me a good laugh.
@Massinissa:
I cannot believe the immense hate and disgusting stereotyping you are doing of white American women, and American people in general. And you're spewing lies.
However, I am curious how you know what the vast majority of porn films contain. Unless you have seen them yourself you cannot know. So I will assume you watch a lot of porn.
All this speaks to the morality judgements we make of women, including those alluded to in the article, and they all reek of misogyny.
- Posted by Sobia on October 21, 2009 at 06:08 PM
way to lay the smack down and get this discussion back on track humanitarian and sobia! thank you!
- Posted by sarah3 on October 21, 2009 at 10:09 PM
Sarah3 >>> i don't believe that at any point i equate conservative or traditional with misogynistic. in fact i don't even mention the former two words, so how exactly do u think i'm equating these things?
You made an analysis about men objecting to this device. The men are from a traditional and conservative society. You also elaborately discussed how man in opposition to such a device are emasculated. This is basically and invention of your own mind. In no way have you given conern to the traditional norms of this society or their concerns. Yes. Egypt does have prevalent forms of prejudice or sexism. But by being critical of those who are concerned, you create a false premise that those concerns stem from the same prejudice.
This is the same way that Massi assumes the size of the American porn industry can be directly correlated to this STD. And its incorrect to correlate the sexual behaviour of Americans to porn industry, the same way its incorrect to relate sexual conservatism to abuse of womens rights.
OmarG >>>> I have a problem with that. Individuals are living, breathing people; communities are not alive.
That's a very narrow view of community and a very narrow view of what it means to be living.
Sobia >>> However, I am curious how you know what the vast majority of porn films contain. Unless you have seen them yourself you cannot know. So I will assume you watch a lot of porn.
This is a weak and spiteful criticism. Why do you have to attack Massi to give clout to your point? Also, the extent of the American porn industry is freely referred to in censored popular culture. I don't have to ever take part in gang violence to know that parts of the US are ghettoised, racially isolated and economically disparate. Be nice.
<<>> There are some 13,000 porn films made in the United States a year. According to the Internet Filter Review, worldwide porn revenues, including in-room movies at hotels, sex clubs and the ever-expanding E-sex world, topped $97 billion in 2006. That's more than the revenues of the leading technology companies combined: Microsoft, Google, Amazon, eBay, Yahoo!, Apple, Netflix and EarthLink. Annual sales in the United States are estimated at $ 10 billion or higher. There is no agency that does precise monitoring of the porn industry. And porn is very lucrative to some of the nation's largest corporations. General Motors, for example, owns DirectTV, which distributes over forty million streams of porn into American homes every month. AT&T Broadband and Comcast Cable are the currently biggest American companies accommodating porn users with The Hot Network, Adult Pay-Per-View and similarly themed services. AT&T and GM rake in approximately 80 percent of all porn dollars spent by consumers.<<>>
Obviously, this topic is not about porn or the device. But it definitely relates towards attitudes about sex. And I can't find extreme notions of individual liberty acceptable when sex relates to the marital union, family units and consent between adults. Both are foundation blocks for a functioning society.
Human beings possess the technology to keep birth and STD's out of the mix. But we only possess the technology for little over 50 years of our tens of thousands of years of history. And its impact on attitudes towards sex and marriage is without a doubt huge and not always positive. Technology has altered societies relationship with its most basic institutions. Most of our social values are built on those institutions. That has been the nature of society for hundreds and thousands of years.
- Posted by Ghulam (South Africa) on October 22, 2009 at 01:00 PM
- Posted by fester on October 22, 2009 at 01:05 PM
@Ghulam:
No you don't have to take part in gang violence to know it exists but you do have to read news reports or research on the topic to know so. If you never read anything on the prevalence of gang violence then you will not know. Similarly, I did not ask if Massi takes part in porn videos, just if he/she watches them - which would be equivalent to you reading about gang violence in the papers to know it occurs. (Even if you read about it in the papers doesn't mean it's necessarily a problem - you would need to actually either research it yourself or read research on it to know whether or not it's a big problem). That analogy is inappropriate.
- Posted by Sobia on October 22, 2009 at 01:20 PM
Ghulam: I don't agree with it all, but the above is a nice post!
- Posted by fester on October 22, 2009 at 01:22 PM
@Ghulam: >>In no way have you given conern to thetraditional norms of this society
The "traditional norms" are anti-woman. These so-called norms are not acceptable simply because they are "Traditional" whatever that means. Nor are they acceptable merely because they are opposite of the so-called West.
The standard by which we judge is the justice and fairness of Islam and our own rationality. This is not fair to women: that men are only concerned with the devices because they cast doubt on whether the vulvas they purchase have been used by another man before. (this term "shiraa' al-furuj" purchase of vulva is used in Shariah books about marriage, so don't jump on me; simply reflects how men of olden eras viewed marriage and how that notion still exists and is trying to be spread by some current Islamists and Neo-Traditionalists).
Sorry
- Posted by OmarG on October 22, 2009 at 01:57 PM
Fester ... that's an interesting topic in itself and we see it all the time. The loudest most belligerent voice gets listened to and bullies the others out. But it goes beyond that and it gets at our animal behavior. Why is it that if you are at one point along the scale, and my voice is louder, angrier, more vehement, many people will take that as a sign of superiority or in this case piety. Muslims and Christians and Jews and others fall prey to this. And it is a clear and conscious tactic in the armamentarium of those wishing to dominate others. The biggest gorilla with the loudest roar will dominate the clan. But what is required for this, is that those who are cowed are not confident in their own faith, in their own relatinship with God. Otherwise such tangents would be futile. By extension, keeping the people out of the intimate loop of authentic personal connections with God is critical, and this is one of the hallmarks of certain factions within Islam today.
- Posted by Akenanubis on October 22, 2009 at 03:37 PM
great article..just read it..isn't a very alarming topic?? again i think it is more of cultural issue..coz i had seen an Indian movie(Hindus not Muslim),a widow(her husband died) can't be married again eternally to preserve what so called their 'divine culture'..n sadly 'hypocrisy' is another issue here..both Muslim men & women..
- Posted by waniey on October 24, 2009 at 03:51 PM
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